Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Five Hundred and Fifty Four. ... It doesn't exactly roll off the tongue. At least not in the way that 500 or 1,000 does. But that's how many posts I've entered over the past three years. Crazy. On Saturday my first borns turn three. Three years of their lives have swept over us. Three years of self improvement has made the man of my past an unrecognizable shadow. Three years of logging has given me countless hours of joy and reflection and history that would have otherwise been lost to the fogginess of recollection. Three years of sharing my life. ... our life with you has exposed my soul and filled it in return with confidence and strenght and love. I've enjoyed the ride. My regular readers, and I still find it amazing to believe that you exist but sure enough I see your click counts pile up day after day; to you I apologize. It's not needed, I know. We never had some sort of agreement that this journey would continue with the depth and dedication it first started. But I've grown as accustom to writing for you as you have to reading me; and you've noticed, no doubt, that I've been absent a lot lately. I wanted to take a moment, an official moment, here at 554 to assure you that my absence is not a bad omen. In fact, it's a wonderful boon for our little family whom you've gotten to know these past half thousand posts. Out of the blue I've seen my job turn into a career. I've had a huge question mark filled and with it nearly all of my free time. As you know my priority when I'm home is my children so you can appreciate that I'm not about to sacrifice my time with them to tell you about my time with them. ... no offense. And these past few weeks as soon as they've gone off to bed; well, so have I. The peril of 12 hour work days I suppose. But tonight Gina is off at a concert and the kids are all quiet and I'm not really sleepy so I thought I'd catch up with you. So here we are, half way through October. Rosaline turned 10 months old today. She's walking, like really walking. I've counted up to ten steps at a time. The way she does that pause half way through her journey to regain stability; then she look sat you with that big drooly grin before running the rest of the way into your outstretched arms. ... It's breath taking. Arianna has become a little jealous of all the attention the baby sister is receiving and at moments we've got her pushing or pulling or trying to block the baby from stealing the spotlight. It's tough to lose that role of the baby. But she herself has blossomed beautifully the past few months as well. I came home today to her riding a tricycle around the living room. The last time I saw her attempt that her feet were still 2 inches away from the peddles. But there she was, doing laps. Last Friday we went to a pumpkin patch and she rode the big swings with the purest grin you've ever seen plastered to her face. I know they call them toddlers at this age; but when I look at her I see this beautiful woman just growing up before my eyes. It's terrifying; I'm proud but I'm not ready to meet her yet. I still want my little tote haired, wide eyed Gerber baby to play princess with me. And then there's Genevieve. No doubt you saw the pic of the week, she's 2 inches above the required height line for Knott's Berry Farm's upside down roller coasters. That's frightening. But she's not just tall, she's so mature. Always thinking things through, usually out loud. Always telling the others how the world works; especially when something is "not nice". I see Gina in her. So strong until that last little thing shatters the glass and she crumples into a disastrous heap. then so easily repaired by something simple like ice cream or a well placed tickle. They turn three on Saturday. Have I mentioned that? It's bizarre for me to think about and you've only had 554 posts to see the changes. What will the next 554 hold for us? How far will we get? How much will we grow? Because it's not just these little ones that change, it's us too. I've taken on this career change, this limiting daytime activity which has nothing to do with the the things I really want to do (like blog) because my family needs me to. Because they depend on me. 554 posts from aimless wandered to driven provider. 12 hour work days are worth 12 minutes of smiles. Did you know that? How quickly the pressure and frustration can wear off. How rewarding life can be if you really live it. It hasn't taken me 554 posts to come to that realization, in fact it only took about 20 minutes in an operating room nearly three years ago for that to happen. But 554 posts now stand firm to attest that which I new was true. This parenting thing. .... there is nothing that the worlds greatest dreamers could imagine that might compare. If this ends up as my last post ever; that's the point I wish to make.
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